I Want Him to Want Me: How to Respond When Your Husband Doesn't Want Sex - Paperback by Books by splitShops

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by Sheri Mueller (Author)

Do you want sexual intimacy with your husband more than he does?

In a society that often paints men as the sole pursuers of sexual desire, countless wives silently struggle with unmet needs and unanswered questions. Many women have carried the weight of shame and confusion, longing for connection while feeling rejected by their husbands.

Licensed clinical professional counselor Sheri Mueller shares valuable insights into the underlying dynamics at play in such situations. She delves into the complex emotional and psychological factors that contribute to husbands turning away from their wives, dispelling misconceptions and offering a fresh perspective on these delicate issues.

Discover:

• the truth about intimacy struggles and why a husband might turn away;
• communication strategies about a woman's sexual needs and desires;
• practical steps to foster an atmosphere of trust, vulnerability, and mutual understanding;
• self-care techniques to boost self-esteem and cultivate a positive body image; and
• exercises and activities to revive sexual passion.

I Want Him to Want Me challenges traditional assumptions and provides women with tools to reclaim their sexual agency, rebuild intimacy, and find healing within their marriages.

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Tonight's the night, you think.

You nestle in next to your sweetheart as he watches television. "Hey, honey, the kids are asleep," you whisper. "What do you say we go upstairs and mess around?"

"Not tonight," he says, not looking your way.

Your shoulders tense as you sense this night ending as so many others have before.

"Come on, babe," you press on. "We haven't had sex in a while. I promise you'll enjoy it."

"I don't feel like it. I just want to watch my show."

And there it hangs. Rejection. Again.

Why doesn't he want me? you wonder. What's wrong with me? And the tears come, as they have so many times before.

If you've experienced this scenario, you are not alone. Despite the myths and stereotypes that suggest otherwise, as many as 30 percent of married women have a higher sex drive than their husbands. Some wives have endured months or even years without any physical intimacy in their marriages.

I Want Him to Want Me is written for women who feel neglected or even ignored by their husbands sexually. Whether your relationship is dealing with mental or physical health conditions, porn use, infidelity, or other concerns, this book will help you learn to work together to attain the best sex life possible for both of you.